Documented reality: women who are single or in a mixed-faith marriage are targeted first · often by a warm, welcoming group. Here, belonging comes before doctrine.
Before you play · ask yourself for real
What if the problem were not the doctrine, but the loneliness? What drives someone to feel finally welcomed… somewhere other than with us?
For her, the relationship came before the doctrine. So your welcome will have to come before your correction: first listen to what moved her, validate the wound without validating the error, and spot the warning sign. You are not debating · you are walking alongside her.